Although it can be overwhelming when brainstorming ideas, it helps to narrow down your message. Think of the circumstances in your partner's life. If your partner has recently had a huge life change, such as a baby or a new career, you might want to reflect this in your gift. A new mom would love a day at the spa, or a book of massage coupons from you.

If you are considering proposing, your gift should reflect your feelings to this one person. Since they are unlike any other person in your mind, you should let them know this in your choice of gift. Individualized or engraved jewelry is a strong choice. If you have a piece of jewelry that is a family heirloom, you can have it restored and give it as a gift. If you want to treat your spouse of many years to something out of the everyday experience, try a shared adventure. Dance lessons, art classes, or even a canoe trip can be a uniting experience.

Sometimes the best gifts are for no particular reason at all. Being reminded that you are loved, on any given day, is a gift. If you are a busy couple, an unexpected romantic dinner is always a good idea. You can always show up, if appropriate, at their place of employment with a picnic basket. If you are daring, you can show up wearing a coat over some sexy lingerie, but be sure that you go somewhere (not a cubicle) where your partner will not end up either fired or under arrest.

Unexpected gifts are so special. If he loves sports, you can plan a day at a game and a romantic dinner at the stadium's upscale restaurant. Some sports venues will have a restaurant overlooking the field, but be prepared to book far in advance.

There are several brands of commercial chocolates available. A box of assorted chocolates is the most common choice, especially for gift-giving. If you are unsure of what type of chocolate to select, an assortment from a chocolatier is the safest option.

There are also several brands of dark chocolate that are superior in taste and quality. The label will indicate the percentage of cocoa in the chocolate. The higher the percentage, the better the chocolate. With many of the brands of fine chocolate, the packaging is gorgeous, which makes it an even nicer gift for any occasion. (Although, let's be honest; most of us wouldn't care what packaging chocolate came in, just as long as it's chocolate!)

If you go to a chocolatier, or a store offering fine chocolate, you can also choose from truffles or petit fours. Truffles are incredibly decadent, as well as beautiful. The flavors range from champagne to rich liquors to coffee and hazelnut, so you can find a selection to satisfy any preference.